Sometimes when blogging gets tough, when I sit and stare at a blank screen for hours, I often ask myself why I blog. “It’s for our memories. It’s the best souvenir I can get,” I’d tell myself. Otherwise, I’d forget.
But then I realize that if it really is to document my memories, then I’m doing the world’s crappiest job at that. When I started this blog, I really thought I was going to write about everything we do and eat. But that didn’t happen. So many things were left unblogged simply because I couldn’t find the words to write an entertaining post. So then I revised my blogging strategy to “I’ll only blog about things that have inspired me enough that the words just pour out.” That left me with blogging about approximately… 10% of our travels. The other vast majority only exist as vague memories or as uncategorized pictures hidden in a jumble of digital folders.
The other day, I had an epiphany: a monthly travel re-cap is the answer! Why didn’t I think of this months ago?! Clearly, we’re traveling faster than I can blog, and we’re seeing more amazing things than my writing skills can capture. The least I can do is re-cap it all monthly with a summary where we’ve been, what we did, and some highlights and lowlights.
So here goes the first of the re-caps: NOVEMBER 2014
Beginning to mid-November: Chiang Mai
Nov 9th: We attended a one-day Northern Thailand tour, which included the White Temple in Chiang Rai, the Karen Long Neck tribe, lunch at the Golden Triangle (where Thailand, Laos, and Burma meet), a boat ride along the Mekong, and then across to a Laos market (which was pretty cool to say that we set foot in Laos!). As with most tours, at times it felt either rushed or that they’re just taking you to buy stuff. But I think it was worth it to have someone else do all the planning and to see a lot things in one day.
Here is what I remember from that day:
- Woke up the morning and tummy didn’t feel right. I was so terrified of having to use public restrooms that I considered canceling (yes, I have an irrational fear, and this was going to be a 15 hour day). I decided to brave it out.
- The White Temple was breathtakingly gorgeous like in the picture. But the setting was anything but peaceful. There were so many tourists, and the whole time, there was a guy yelling into a loudspeaker to take off your shoes, no photos, no walking backwards, etc. I couldn’t wait to get out of there.
- Despite all the really amazing things we saw that day, the boat ride along the Mekong was the most fun!
Nov 10th: I celebrated my 28th birthday (my 1st birthday abroad!) in a fantastically un-glamorous way…. with a stomach problem! We didn’t have plans to begin with, but I thought that I’d at least pig out and drag D around to all the dessert cafes (he can’t deny me dessert on my birthday!). But needless to say, that didn’t work out. Instead I spent half the day in bed, and the other half deathly afraid that I was going to have an accident in my pants if I venture out too far.
Nov 14th: We finished up our month in Chiang Mai. It was sad day when I packed up my bags and turned in the keys to the apartment. We’ve grown accustomed to the easy, slow life there. We had our routine and our favorite street vendors. It was everything I loved about slow travel. I wanted it to continue. But I also knew that we shouldn’t get too comfortable. So we left and flew to..
Nov 14 – Nov 18: Bangkok
Bangkok was a huge change from the laid-back vibe of Chiang Mai. It’s loud, hectic, smelly, and dirty. I’ve made it no secret that I’m not a fan of huge cities. But even I can admit that cities come with unparalleled perks, such as a luxury high-rise condo (our view was amazing!) and world-class food.

We spent most of our 4 days staycation-ing in our lovely apartment (gotta make use of it!), some days stepping out only to grab food from the mini-mart in the lobby. The area we stayed in was like the shopping district or something, because there was (no kidding) at least 5 huge shopping malls in the surrounding blocks. A couple of times, we walked over to Central World, which is practically a mini city in itself! And of course, one evening, our curious minds took us to the famous red-light district, Soi Cowboy.
Nov 18-21: Ayutthaya
After a very cramped 2 hour mini-van ride, we were in Ayutthaya, a small city famous for its 700 year old ruins. I had the responsibility of finding accommodation, so of course, I booked the cutest lodging I could find. We checked into a lovely wooden traditional Thai style villa with a moat all around. It was exactly the kind of peace I needed after Bangkok.

We rented bikes from the villa and spent a day wat-hopping in the city. It was my first time on a bike in over a year, and Thailand was probably not the best place to start riding again. The streets have no bike lane (or sidewalks sometimes, for that matter) and I about had a nervous breakdown trying to not get hit by cars, scooters, and tuk-tuks. But the old ruins were definitely worth the trouble!
The next day, we took a train to Lopburi on the recommendation of a couple of people. Lopburi’s claim to fame is the wild monkeys that run freely on the streets and in the old temple ruin. Prior to going, I have never seen wild monkeys like that! It was all fun and games…. until it wasn’t. (Stay tuned, story coming soon.)
Here’s a preview:
Nov 21-25: Sukhothai
Sukhothai (the capital of the ancient Siamese kingdom) was a 6 hour bus ride from Ayutthaya. Again, I booked us the cutest place I could find. This time, we got our own little wooden bungalow at Lotus Village. This was my favorite accommodation to date! I absolutely DIE over cute rustic cabins like this (though D didn’t like it much with all the bugs and animal noises outside).
Again, we rented bikes to wat-hop. Sukhothai is different from Ayutthaya in that there is a protected historical park where all the ruins are located (as opposed to just scattered about randomly in the city). It was an absolute pleasure to bike in the beautiful park with green lakes and lush forests. Around every corner was a new scenery and I couldn’t help but stop every couple hundred feet to try to capture it all. And a definite plus: there were no cars to fight for road space with! This day was one of my most enjoyable days in Thailand so far!
So, Ayutthaya or Sukhothai? Both are famous for their historical ruins, and each has their unique ones, but I enjoyed Sukhothai a lot more. I felt so relaxed biking around the beautiful park, whereas biking in Ayutthaya stressed me out. I also liked the little city center of Sukhothai more. One night, we found a little night market and had one of the best bowls of freshly made Sukhothai noodles while sitting on the sidewalk.
Nov 25-28: Bangkok again
So yeah, we took another 6 hour bus ride to go back down south to Bangkok again. Thailand is becoming a lesson in bad planning. Basically, we didn’t really think our route through. And everything leaves out of Bangkok, so we had to come back so we can leave again (makes sense?). I wish I have something more fun to report, but unfortunately, this time passed just as uneventfully as the first time.
What’s going on in December:
Currently, we are spending almost 2 weeks on the island of Koh Chang (just off the mainland), where we have rented our own little bungalow. I’ve felt so happy and carefree here that the thought of having to leave soon makes me sad. But more exciting things are coming up!
Afterwards, we’re headed back to Bangkok yet again for a couple of nights before flying to Siem Reap, Cambodia, where we are staying for 2 weeks (through Christmas). We’ve rented a room inside of a family’s compound, so it should be an interesting Airbnb experience! Mainly, we’re going to see Angkor Wat, but I’m excited to learn more about Cambodia (a country I know little about) and eat its food!
After Siem Reap, we are headed once again back to… Bangkok to celebrate New Years! This will be our fourth time in this city in a month. But the previous three times, we’ve just been more or less passing through, using it as a hub to get to other destinations. So this time, we’re giving it the attention it deserves and will be exploring the city as much as we can for the 2 weeks we’re there.
How was your November? I hope everyone’s having a great December!
Let me know if you have any recommendations for Siem Reap and Bangkok! It’ll be much appreciated!
This post is linked up to Travel Tuesday with adventurings.



I think what you are doing with this post is good. In fact, if you are not inspired to write, you can just create a post with minimal writings and more pictures. Maybe 1 picture per meaningful thing that you did. Most of the time, 1 picture will be enough to trigger an inrush of returning memories and smiles :)
I try not to be one of those bloggers who just throw up a couple hundred words (if that) along with a bunch of pictures. :) But I agree that just 1 picture is enough to remember! I will continue to do a monthly recap from now on, especially after I just found out just how bad D’s memory is. After reading this post… he was like “I don’t remember renting bikes in Ayutthaya”, lol!
Sounds like a great travel list! I’m currently in Jakarta and I’m loving traveling around southeast Asia! We are going to a lot of the same places this december! We are doing:
lombok
Singapore
Koh samui
Bangkok
Chiang Mia
Siem Reap
Ahh, travling is so fun!
I’m really loving SEA too! I’m jealous that you’re in Indonesia though! We’re not hitting it this time around. Enjoy your travels around SEA!! You take such beautiful photography. I’ll be looking forward to your photos of your travels!
Happy belated birthday! I can’t wait to explore this part of the world.
Thank you, Tamara! This is my time in this part of the world, and i’m loving it. I know you will too!!
I lvoe the wooden bungalows! That is my kind of accomodation too. Your upcoming plans sound exciting, it makes me excited about finally heading to Asia next November :)
I’m so excited for you! You will have such a good time! And yes, those Thai wooden bungalows are the best! I decided that if I ever could design/build my own house, I want something like that (but with modern amenities inside, of course)!
If you love history and ruins, you’re going to love Siem Reap! I went there two years ago and I still haven’t written all about it (I need to get my butt around to doing that).
It’s a good idea to hire one tuk tuk driver to take you around everywhere as opposed to trying to cycle between the temples – they’re too far apart. Go early (like, before 7am) then come back home during the heat of the day and go out again later in the afternoon. I have a post on my site called How To Avoid Temple Fatigue In Siem Reap which may help you.
Also, if you go out to Banteay Srei (the pink temple – it’s a little out of the way but you MUST go, it’s small but striking) then while you’re in the area definitely pay a visit to the Cambodian Landmine Museum. It’s run by a man who I’m sure is actually an angel in human form. He used to be a child soldier laying landmines but now he goes around discovering them and disarming them. (Yep, they’re still littered about the countryside!) On top of this he’s taken in about 30 needy children too, and for the past few years he’s being doing it as a single dad since the death of his wife. The museum is fascinating but it’s also worth going just to support him and the wonderful work he does. If you decide to go, it’s on the road that leads to and from Banteay Srei and your tuk tuk driver will know of it.
Thank you SO MUCH Karyn for your suggestions!!! I haven’t done too much research on Siem Reap so I really don’t know what else is there besides Angkor Wat! The pink templle and the landmine museum both sound amazing!! I’m already so touched by your description of the man who runs it. I really do wish to learn more about the history of the country!
I’m gonna check out your article on avoiding temple fatigue.. I know what you mean… I’m feeling that in Thailand already!
Yep temple fatigue is so a thing! For people who are only in Siem Reap for a few days they don’t really feel it but if you’re there longer, yeah, you feel it. :D I’m actually writing up a post right now on the Cambodian Landmine Museum (talking about it has inspired me!) so hopefully you’ll have some more detailed info by the time you get there. Ooh also – if you do start feeling temple fatigue go to Angkor Watt Putt and play mini golf. We loved it there. :)
Oh and if you go to Tonle Sap Lake be VERY wary of scams. Read the info on the TripAdvisor reviews first. I actually wouldn’t go there at all unless it’s part of a planned tour.
Holy crap.. I just read up about it on Trip Advisor. Thanks so much for letting me know about it. I’d be very very wary of going there now. What looks like it should be a cool little floating village just sounds like one huge tourist trap/scam. I kinda feel weird too about the concept of paying money to see how poor people live…
And can’t wait to read your post about the Landmine Museum!
It looks like we just passed each other multiple times in November! Haha. We were in Bangkok on Nov. 22 and Dec. 1 (also not fans of the city, so we just used it as a long layover destination) and in Chiang Mai from Nov. 26-28. We also spent three days in Siem Reap, and we LOVED it. We actually preferred Cambodia to Thailand, so I hope you enjoy it as well! Can’t wait to see your photos of that trip. :) Obviously Angkor Wat is amazing, but you should head out of the city to see Beng Melea as well; it was my favorite temple!
Thanks so much for reading and for the Siem Reap suggestion! I’ll definitely look it up :). I’ve heard good and bad things about Cambodia, so I’m glad to hear you say that you loved it so much!! I’m sure I’ll have a good time!
I have yet to make it to SEA so I don’t have any suggestions for you, but I’m loving hearing about your experiences and can’t wait to read about Cambodia! It’s way up there on places I need to get to soon. Love the pictures of the monkeys, though I’d probably freak out if one was on my head like that!
I’m so excited about Cambodia too!! I know it’s a popular travel destination now, but it still sounds so exotic to me. :)
Ugh, you’re freaked out about a monkey on your head… they can do much, much worse! I have the story in my latest post!
Loved this post style! I know EXACTLY what you mean by those first few paragraphs. Finding the balance is super hard.
Super excited for your Cambodian adventures! I thought it was a pretty incredible country. Agree with another reader above – definitely try and get to the Cambodian Landmine Museum! I would also recommend visiting a restaurant called ‘Marum’ – a really cool initiative that trains street kids to work in the restaurant industry.
That restaurant sound awesome!! I love places that make a difference like that. I’m really loving Cambodia so far. I still have yet to make it to the Landmine Museum, but I definitely want to after reading her blog post on it!
I agree that the balance is so hard. I’m super envious of the bloggers who seem like they so effortlessly write about everything they do. I find travel writing to be very difficult actually, so I’m happy to just do a monthly re-cap for my memories. :)